Once upon a time, I was a voracious reader. In a good week, I devoured three to four books, taking in chapters while kids were playing or sleeping (thankfully, I’m a pretty fast reader).
However, I’ve noticed something, oh, in the past year or so. I’ve not been reading much. As in, I can’t remember the last time I finished a book.
Ok, I take that back. It was Notes from a Blue Bike (read it, you’ll love it). But even that was the first book in a long time and I read it back in November.
The problem? I’ve been too busy creating a blog about a lifestyle and forgetting to live it myself.
Sure, I’ve simplified. A lot. But rather than taking all the free time I have because I’m not cleaning all the time and using it to engage more with my family, learn new things (oh, how I love learning) and just plain enjoy every bit of my life, I’ve done the opposite.
I’ve stopped learning about things I love, choosing instead to agonize over blog statistics and trying to figure out the best time to engage on social media (guess what, there’s no clear answer). Writing has become a chore, not the creative outlet it once was.
My family complains about how often I’m on my computer and, frankly, I’m sick of it. That is not why I chose this path. It’s not why I simplified and moved into a bus. It’s not why I started writing in the first place.
I quit the blogging madness.
No, I’m not quitting this blog. I love helping you on this journey and connecting with wonderful people. I am, however, quitting the crap that doesn’t matter.
- I quit letting social media own me.
- I quit agonizing over the number of visitors I get in a given day.
- I quit stressing about my business every chance I get.
- I quit trying to keep up with everyone else, sacrificing that which makes me me and attracted people in the first place.
Stepping Back from the Madness
This week, I was blessed with a spontaneous retreat with my best friend. We’ve been trying to plan it for months, but our schedules just didn’t match up. Late last week, however, I got a message saying she had Monday and Tuesday available and asked if I had that time available as well. Indeed I did.
We rented my pastor’s beautiful mountain cabin (almost exactly what I want in a small house) for an amazingly low price and spent two days doing whatever the hell we wanted.
And, best of all, I’m putting more joy and peace back in my life:
- More time spent laughing with my kids.
- More passionate kisses with my husband.
- More time with the people we love.
- More leisure.
- More learning.
- And, of course, more reading.
Back in the Habit
As it turns out, getting back in the reading habit is even easier than falling out of my running habit. When I got home, I logged into my Goodreads account (for the first time since I opened it in 2012) and made a list of books I want to read.
Then, I checked my library’s website and started requesting books. I was even able to download one of them right to my phone’s Kindle app, thanks to my library’s digital download program. Awesome.
If you’re feeling a pull back to reading more (or want to get in the habit for the first time), I encourage you to make a list of what you’d like to read and get started. Just dive in. And if you can enjoy your book with a glass of wine or cup of coffee and chocolate, even better.
My Summer Reading List
Here’s what I’ll be reading this summer. I’m sure I’ll add to the list, but, for now, this is where I’m starting.
:: Little House in the Suburbs: Backyard Farming and Home Skills for Self-Sufficient Living (Reading it now. I love how these women write.)
:: Bonne Femme (Because what’s better than simplified cooking? Simplified French cooking!)
:: The Red Tent
I’m also pretty sure I’ll be taking this Online Intermediate Herbal Course.
Just reading this list makes my soul (and brain) light up. Happy sigh.